Grimsby BBBS to Join our Agency in Historic Evolution

Big Brothers Big Sisters of Grimsby, Lincoln and West Lincoln (BBBSGLWL) has joined forces with Big Brothers Big Sisters of St. Catharines, Thorold & District (BBBSSTC) in a historic evolution for the agency. Becoming a part of BBBSSTC means that the agency will now help form a new entity, representing the largest Big Brothers Big Sisters service area in Niagara.

Board of Director Members from both agencies voted unanimously in agreement that by sharing collective resources, the children of BBBSGLWL and BBBSSTC will benefit greatly.

“This evolution of our agency represents over 2 years of careful examination of our service delivery models to achieve the most positive outcome possible.” said Justin Cruse, Board President of BBBSGLWL.

“This evolution of our agency represents over 2 years of careful examination of our service delivery models to achieve the most positive outcome possible.” said Justin Cruse, Board President of BBBSGLWL. “The needs of the children and youth we serve, and their families has always been the catalyst behind these discussions. We are confident that this will enable us the capacity to deliver quality service to more children and youth in Niagara, and expand our service delivery to more schools.” Continued Cruse.

The BBBSSTC agency’s office will now operate as the Head Office for all operations, with the BBBSGLWL office remaining open and operational as a Satellite Office. In the interim, the two agencies will operate under their current names, with eventual plans to become a newly named organization that accurately reflects the new service area.

Through shared programming, fundraising, marketing and administration, BBBSGLWL and BBBSSTC will continue to effectively and efficiently recruit and retain mentors for children.

“We’re so excited about this opportunity.” said Michelle Miller, Board President of BBBSSTC.

“We’re so excited about this opportunity.” said Michelle Miller, Board President of BBBSSTC. “Ultimately, the number one priority was how to serve more children and youth in Niagara. Big Brothers Big Sisters of Grimsby, Lincoln and West Lincoln has incredible operation standards and service delivery. Now we can lend our agency’s staffing capacity to help grow those services to more families and schools, all while creating seamless borders for our volunteers. It’s a win-win.” Continued Miller.

It is anticipated that with its collective forces united, BBBSSTC and BBBSGLWL will mentor over 1,000 youth in the region by 2018’s year end.

For more information, please see the FAQ below:

Grimsby – St. Catharines FAQ

Nothing will change for families of either agency. Families of the BBBSGLWL agency will still have the same program contacts, as will families from the BBBSSTC agency. Families from the BBBSGLWL agency are now welcome to use the BBBSSTC offices, or meet with any of our staff regarding programs, events etc. They can contact Ashley Dunseith, Supervisor of Programs and Services, for more information at Ashley.dunseith@bigbrothersbigsisters.ca or 905-646-3230 ext. 25
Hours of operation at the BBBSGLWL office have changed to: 8:30 a.m. – 5:00 p.m. Monday – Wednesday, 2:00 p.m. – 5:00 p.m. on Thursday and closed Friday. Hours of operation at the St. Catharines office will remain unchanged.
This evolution of our agency represents over 2 years of careful examination of our service delivery models to achieve the most positive outcomes possible for the children and youth of Niagara. Board of Director Members from both agencies voted unanimously in agreement that by sharing collective resources, the children, volunteers and families of BBBSGLWL and BBBSSTC will benefit greatly.
Both agencies are strong and operating efficiently, but this unison will give us the capacity to deliver quality service to more children and youth in Niagara, and expand our service delivery to more schools. This is about long-term success and sustainability for both agencies.
Yes...eventually. In the interim, the two agencies will operate under their current names, with eventual plans to become a newly named organization that accurately reflects the new service area.
Our commitment to the children and youth of Niagara will not change, and has never been stronger. It is anticipated that with its collective forces united, our agency will mentor over 1,000 youth in the region by 2018’s year end.
Donors, sponsors and community partners should know that all funding dollars, grants and donations will be pooled ensuring both agencies have the financial strength and mobility to serve our region for the long-term.

Lori and Sarah

Longtime match, Lori and Sarah, have been through many ups and downs together throughout their over 20 years of friendship. What started as a mentorship relationship, has grown into much more. Not only are Lori and Sarah best of friends, Lori has also become a mother figure to both Sarah and her children. This is the story of Lori and Sarah!

Levi and Jaysen

We love stories like this!

Levi, and his Little Brother, Jaysen, are going on 9 years as a match at our agency!

Jaysen’s mother says:

“Even though my son has outgrown Levi in height, his “Big Bro” is still a huge influence on Jaysen. He was a special part of Levi’s wedding and wanted to show you a wonderful picture!”

A Better Me

Sarah and Ciera have celebrated 2 years together in the Big Sisters program, and man have they covered a lot of ground! When it comes to variety in activities and visits, these two take the cake. From tie dye t-shirts to kitchen camp-outs, these two have done a lot! But, their impressive list of activities is not their coolest feature. It’s the impact that their relationship has had on each other.

For Sarah, Ciera has become a special friendship in her life. So special that even though Sarah has accepted a job over an hour away from Niagara, she and Ciera’s grandma have agreed to meet half way to make visits continue to work.

For Ciera, there is even more to it. Ciera tells others that she and Sarah are sisters. When explaining how important Sarah is to her, she recalled a game she played in french class where the teacher asks questions and you had to stand if your answer is yes. The teacher asked people to stand if they have a sister and Ciera stood up. She asked her teacher if her sister (Sarah) counts, and the teacher said yes.

Since the match began, Ciera’s grandma has found that Ciera has been “more at peace with herself.” She went on to explain that Ciera has also been taking more of a leadership role at school and has found that her teachers have commented on how much she has improved both in the classroom and with her peers. What an accomplishment!

The ripple effects that this friendship or sisterhood, rather, have had are remarkable. The impact and growth that has happened personally for Sarah and Ciera and the impact that it has in their lives as well as in their circles is simply beautiful.

Cally Wins The Ted Rogers Scholarship!

One of the Littles from our agency, Cally Kokoski, was the recipient of the Ted Rogers Scholarship in the amount of $10,000.00!

You may remember Cally from this inspiring story we shared a few months back. She is incredible.

We put together this little video to showcase what some of Cally’s closest peers and teachers think about her, and why she was deserving of this honour.
 
The goal of the scholarship is to ensure the success of future generations of Canadians by helping young leaders across the country succeed in their educational aspirations. Cally is already a young leader, and surely has an incredibly bright future ahead!
 
Congratulations, Cally!

Choir Nation: Tomorrow’s Voices!

One of the Littles from our agency, Julian, recently had the opportunity to be a part of an incredible new initiative in Niagara called Tomorrow’s Voices!

Tomorrow’s Voices, a choir composed of 35 kids between seven and 17 who have been recruited from Niagara groups such as Big Brothers Big Sisters, Community Care and the DSBN Academy. Tomorrow’s Voices aims to open the doors to music and choir to all kids — regardless of social barriers.

It’s been a busy year for Tomorrow’s Voices, including sharing a stage with Serena Ryder, Dallas Smith and performing the national anthem at a Toronto Marlies game.

On Saturday, June 9th, Julian and Tomorrow’s Voices performed their first ever season finale concert, officially putting a bow on season 1 of this initiative!

Photo credit: Courtney Michaud

Spring Picnic 2018

Happy Monday!! Last week, BBBS celebrated our Spring Picnic event! It was a beautiful day filled with sun, fun and laughs ☀️ Thank you to our sponsors: Butler Funeral Home, Virgil Fire Department And Niagara Car Club!

My Sister

My Sister – written by Mentoring Coordinator, Madeline Van Hemert

Every Big Sister match is special and has elements that are unique to them. The Big Sister match for Danielle and Gwen was that and so much more. Having been matched well over a year, their bond truly grew deep. Like most relationships, theirs took time. The first few months consisted of simply getting to know each other by asking a lot of questions as well as bonding over their shared interests of crafting and eating. Their favourite things to do together were Skyzone, hiking at the Gorge, pottery at the Painted Turtle, attending BBBS events and hanging out.

From there, Danielle and Gwen began to not only become closer friends, but sisters as well. Over time, Danielle inspired Gwen to become obsessed with the Harry Potter series as well as eating Pho. In just over a year, Gwen has seen each Harry Potter movie and is currently reading book #5. Pho is a whole other story. Gwen was sincere in saying that Pho will always be her and Danielle’s ‘thing’. Each and every experience they shared, they documented in a beautiful scrapbook that they started early on. Page after page, this scrapbook holds the memories of each match visit including not just photos, but wrist bands, ticket stubs and even the description of Gwen that Danielle received when going through the matching process.

Much good has come from this relationship for both Danielle and Gwen. For Danielle, she was unsure of what to expect from the program but found that she got more than just a friend. She now has a little sister. Danielle said that people would even ask if they were sisters when they were out together. For Gwen, her takeaways were that Danielle became someone the she trusted, could always laugh with and someone that would always listen. Gwen’s mom found that this relationship gave Gwen the courage to come out of her shell, have more confidence and a friendship that was not hard or filled with drama. Everyone agreed that this was “a perfect match.”

As Danielle has needed to move home to Ottawa, she will be deeply missed. Endings aren’t always easy. Saying goodbye is hard. Luckily for these two, this is simply ‘see you later’. Because of the distance, this match has formally closed. However, because of the sisterhood, this friendship will go on. Gwen and her mom hope to make a trip to Ottawa as neither have been. The incentive now, is that Danielle will be their personal tour guide!

Danielle and Gwen had their final goodbyes at the BBBS office. It was an emotional moment where they shared their scrapbook, talked of their favourite memories, took some photos, and said goodbye with a big hug. They were both proud of themselves for not crying, although they knew without a doubt that the tears would come on their way home.

Big Bunch

In the past, Big Bunch has been poorly attended and many of the sessions had to be cancelled due to lack of attendance. Ridley College has been such a wonderful community partner for our agency, providing access to their state of the art facilities and attending our fundraisers throughout the years and we didn’t want to cancel the program as a result of lack of interest.

This year, there has been a bigger emphasis put on the value of Big Bunch in the parent orientations and the parent training. The process for getting the word out to parents has been streamlined to one person which has resulted in having 5-7 children attend each month. The Big Bunch program allows children on the wait-list to experience positive adults who provide friendship on a monthly basis. It has also allowed the Family Enrollment Coordinator to form relationships with families that we would otherwise not have monthly contact with. The consistent engagement let’s parents know we are working on the wait-list and have not forgotten about them.

Three of our consistent attendees are from a large family that live in an area that is not easily accessed through public transportation. They have one family car and the father works a lot throughout the week, leaving the mom home alone with her 4 children. They would not be able to attend events or Big Bunch if they did not have transportation given to them. Mom had reached out to us for Big Sisters and a Big Brother for the children because the youngest daughter was sexually assaulted and she wanted her to have someone to talk to and confide in. These three children have been a joy to get to know more personally and the Family Enrollment Coordinator has developed a positive relationship with the mom, who was hard for the agency to get a hold of previously. When it comes time for us to match these 3 children with a mentor, we have so much more information on them and our relationship with the family is stronger because of their attendance at Big Bunch. What a beautiful impact this program has!

Meaningful Mentorship

Matt, the little has been matched with Joe the Big Brother for three years, since Matt was 9 years old. At that time, Matt’s dad had moved away and made little effort to see him. He started a new family and often let Matt down by being unreliable and inconsistent. Matt struggled a lot with this and his mom knew she needed to do something for him to help him deal with it. She signed him up for Big Brothers in July 2014 and in December he was matched with Joe.

At the matches three-year annual review with Matt and his mom, she became emotional when she described the importance of the relationship her son has with his Big Brother. She shared that it is a big deal how much Matt likes Joe. He doesn’t talk much about Joe but she understands that it’s their time and she values and respects that for Matt’s sake. She knows that Matt thinks Joe is cool, and he trusts him and feels safe with him. She shared that the role Joe plays in Matt’s life is that of a mentor, role model and Big Brother.

Throughout Matt’s life, Joe has been the longest male relationship he has ever had. He is responsible, positive, consistent and reliable Joe and has made such a difference in Matt’s life. The Mom became emotional when she described how much this relationship is a making a difference in Matt’s life, beyond what she even sees or knows. They buy each other little gifts at Christmas and birthdays and Joe respects Matt for who he is. Other important men in Matt’s life have let him down over and over again, but Joe is reliable. The mom discussed how much Matt has changed. Joe came into his life at a time when he was really missing his father. Matt has gotten better, more accepting and complacent with his father’s choices. Matt has grown quite a bit over the years that he has been matched with Joe. But she stated that Matt would not be who he is today without Joe as his mentor. It is one of the most important relationships of his life, and even though it is not intense, it is so very meaningful.

The Rewards of Being a Big Sister

Maddie and I see each other once a week for 2-4 hours depending on what we are doing.  Recently, we were fortunate to participate in the BBBS Christmas activities together; the Christmas Party, the Jaycees shopping and breakfast, and the NOTL Christmas parade.  One of our favourite things to do is go to the movies.

Our relationship is growing all of the time.  I find her opening up more.  She is a great listener and a real pleasure to be with.

When we spend time with the other Littles like at the Halloween and Christmas parties, I am so impressed with what great kids they are.  I think there is a real misconception about these kids which perhaps makes people apprehensive about volunteering as a Big.  These are some of the sweetest, polite, and compassionate kids I’ve ever been around.  The kids we sat with at the Christmas Party (Jamal, Jevonte, Derek, and Shyann) were so great to Maddie although she was so much younger.  I was very impressed.

Mary